Stranger. What is the biggest fear you have for your children?
LouieV. I would say the biggest fear I have for my children is the type of adult(s) they grow up to be. Will they be responsible, caring, loving, generous, moral, ethical adults and parents? How do I instill these values in them? What foundation do I lay for these values to be able to withstand the ferocious headwinds and shifting societies of today?
I can think of no other worldview that provides reason along with support and logic than the Judeo-Christian one. It’s on this worldview that my children can understand the following propositions:
The value and sanctity of human life.
Our responsibility to the planet and it’s animal life.
The reason why we are here.
Why everything is the way it is.
The hope we have when everything seems to go wrong.
I will provide two responses, one without a Creator and one with.
The Value and Sanctity of Human life.
Atheist. We are here by chance and evolution and every one of these propositions are meaningless. It’s survival of the fittest. Morals and ethics are unimportant and can even be a hindrance. Survival is paramount. I am the only thing that matters. Fellow humans only matter if they are of use to my survival, gain or protection.
Christian. We are made in the image of God and on that basis are of immense intrinsic value and worth. God knows and loves us on a personal level.
He created each one of us in his image with an eternal soul- therefore our lives are sacred.
Our bodies serve as a living temple for his indwelling Holy Spirit - our bodies are sacred.
Our race and ethnicity is sacred.
Our sexuality is sacred.
Our marriage is sacred.
That is enough to know that we are uniquely special in his eyes and our lives have meaning.
Our responsibility to the planet and it’s animal life.
Atheist. This planet is our home. It’s in our best interests to keep it as functional as possible for us and our offspring. Animals ensure our survival, especially in case of catastrophe, with food and clothing.
Christian. God placed us on earth as stewards of his creation, therefore we have a responsibility towards God for keeping our planet undefiled and unpolluted. He gave us dominion over the animals, they are for our use and to be treated with care and respect.
Why we are here.
Atheist. Pure unadulterated chance.
Christian. We are here in our place in history in accordance with God’s plan for us. In the Old Testament, God interacted with the world. In the New Testament, God sent his son Jesus to walk and interact with the world. In our time, God is sending his Holy Spirit to dwell in us to interact with the world. A huge responsibility and gift. All those gone before us, along with the patriarchs, prophets and people of the OT and NT are not alive to worship and carry on God’s work. It’s our turn now.
Why everything is the way it is.
Atheist. Pure unadulterated chance.
Christian. We know that we live in a finely tuned universe and the likelihood of that happening by chance and out of nothing is almost certainly a mathematical impossibility. God, as Creator, solves that problem and at the same time provides meaning.
The hope we have when everything (seems) to go wrong.
Atheist. There is no hope. Wrongs stay wronged and rights are inconsequential. We are a random compilation of atoms hurling across an unending dark, cruel, and cold galaxy at mindblowing speeds towards certain destruction on an unordinary, fragile sphere of earth, rock, air and water.
Christian. There is hope. We may not (and may never will) understand the hows and whys of what befalls us, but the comforting hand of God is always stretched out and there, if we only reach out, take hold and trust completely. We can take solace in the knowledge that the Ruler of the heavens and earth will rule justly, that the tears of pain and frustration will be wiped away with a loving hand, if not on this world then on that distant beckoning one. That the wrongs that were seemingly gotten away with on this world will be judged rightly. That those that were gone too soon and those that lived out their lives in pain and sorrow will not give a thought to those bygone, trying times, nor care.
Postscript
Atheist. The fact is that life is unliveable with these premises. It would be best to pretend that we matter, that there is a God with a personal love and plan for each and every one of us.
Christian. The fact is that we do matter, that there is a God that loves us and has a personal plan for us, this serves to quell any fear or uncertainty we may have.